World
Wide Marriage Encounter: Fathers in Love, Mothers in Love, Families in Love.
Dr. Fr. Davis George, Former Indian Ecclesial Team
(NET) and Asian Ecclesial Team (AET), WWME.
Dr.
Fr. Davis George, Former NET and AET, WWME.
Dick and Patricia Alexandro came to India 40 years ago to share their couple
love and transforming experience of the WWME weekend. They sold everything they owned in the US and
came over to India listening to the voice of God as did Abraham in the
past. What an adventurous journey of
faith they embarked upon beckoning to the call of Jesus to share his
unconditional love and covenantal relationship with couples, priests and
religious. Fr. Peter writes “Dick and
Pat spent 10 months here and I think their lives were truly blessed (even with
the cross) because of their generosity towards God. They left on
Valentine’s Day Feb10th 1973 because they wanted to give God a Valentine gift
of their coupleness.” How can we ever
thank God for the great and daring step taken by Dick and Patricia, supported
by the founder Father WWME India, Fr. Peter D’Souza? On this occasion we salute them and place on
record our deep indebtedness for what they are to all of us and for what they
have done to light the lamp of WWME India burning so brightly till today. “We are only channels of His love and
presence to each other every day through the way we communicate His love and
concern” says Fr. Peter D’souza.
It
is befitting that the Worldwide Marriage Encounter – India, is holding a
National Convention to celebrate 40 Years of WWME in India from October 13-16,
2013. The event would be conducted at Sarvodaya, St Pius X College Campus,
Goregaon, Mumbai. The theme is ‘Go, Grow, Glow, - Faith and Love in Action’. His
Eminence Cardinal Oswald Gracias will inaugurate the Convention. The overwhelming response from encountered
couples, Priests and Religious to be part of the great event is indeed
heartwarming and this would provide much needed impetus to once again to cast
out into the deep. We are deeply
indebted to our NET, Errol, Madhulika and Fr. Melvyn for their dynamic and
visionary leadership which made all of us to be part of this great event and
our special thanks to ME Mumbai for translating the vision into reality. I do remember so many of our Team Couples and
Priests who have generously contributed their love, time, talents and treasure
without counting the cost to make WWME what it is today. The same legacy
is continued by all our team members all over the country. I have been always
inspired by the team couples all these years as they have been leading WWME
through their relationship and the Catholic Church is lucky to have such
dedicated lay leaders who have shown their love for the church in action. The encountered
Couples, Priests and Religious have kept the weekend experience growing and
glowing through their dialoging way of life and widening the circle of
influence by recruiting many more couples and Priests to experience the
weekend.
We
live in a world of great scientific and technological advancement. We can speak to the person on the moon
easily, but we find it difficult to speak to the person under the same
roof. We become strangers in the middle
of a crowd. We have witnessed today a
steady increase in divorce, broken marriages, broken relationships, broken
dreams resulting in broken families, wounded humanity and orphaned
children. Pope Francis said that
Christians should be messengers of hope and joy in today’s world. And that is what marriage encounter weekend
experience can offer to the world. We
need to focus on the domestic Church, couple relationship, commitment in
Priesthood and Religious life- in good times and bad, in sickness and in
health, in prosperity and in adversity, until death do us part.
Pope
John Paul II said, ‘I place much of my hope for the future in Marriage
Encounter.’ Later he wrote, “Love then
is not a utopia: it is given to mankind as a task to be carried out with the
help of divine grace. It is entrusted to man and woman, in the sacrament of
matrimony, as the basic principle of their ‘duty,’ and it becomes the
foundation of their mutual responsibility: first as spouses, then as father and
mother. In the celebration of the sacrament, the spouses give and receive each
other, declaring their willingness to welcome children and to educate them. On
this hinges human civilization, which cannot be defined as anything other than
a ‘civilization of love’.” – Letter to Families, no. 15
Pope
Benedict XVI speaking at an audience with Worldwide Marriage Encounter leaders
from across the world made strong comments in support of the movement. “Marriage Encounter, yes! You are doing such
important work in our church, especially in this world we live in,” Pope
Benedict said as he spoke with David & Bronny Lea and Fr. John Rate,
Worldwide Marriage Encounter International Coordinating Team. The pope went on to say, “I will pray for you
and your movement.”
Over
75,000 people experienced the life-giving Weekends in almost 90 countries
around the world. This year Worldwide Marriage Encounter is celebrating
40 years of ministry in India and Europe. It is indeed a matter of
great pride that WWME is having weekends
in China and Russia. Our IET Tony &
Cathy and Fr. Emile, expressed the hope that Worldwide Marriage Encounter would
reach even more countries in the years ahead. “The need to strengthen
marriage and family throughout the world has never been greater,” they
stated.
Worldwide
Marriage Encounter has been offering weekend experiences for over 43years and
is considered the original faith-based marriage enrichment program. The
programs are continually updated to keep abreast of changes in society, and
WWME now offers evening and half-day programs that are presented at parishes
and other church facilities. The weekend program, traditionally presented
as an overnight experience at a hotel or retreat center, can also be presented
at the parish where the couples return to their homes in the
evenings. WWME has a presence in over 90 countries, which makes it
the largest pro-marriage movement in the world. Today the WWME programs are presented in Local
languages all over the world.
Worldwide
Marriage Encounter offers married couples the opportunity to spend time
together away from the busyness of the world to focus on each other. Fathers
in love, Mothers in love, families in love. It offers tools for building and
maintaining a strong, Christian marriage in today’s world. It also offers
similar skills of building and maintaining a strong Priesthood and Religious
Life.
Worldwide
Marriage Encounter weekends start on a Friday evening and end on Sunday
afternoon. Participants hear presentations by a couple and a priest and later
write their thoughts and feelings to share in the privacy of their room. There
is no group discussion. Weekends are held in various locations, including
hotels and retreat centers. Worldwide Marriage Encounter is a non-profit
organization and all donations from the weekend are used to continue offering
additional weekends throughout the country and the world.
Married
couples, who want to learn more about making their “good marriages, better” can
find Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekends that are presented all over the
world. Marriage encounter weekend can
make a good marriage into a great marriage and a good Priesthood into a great
Priesthood. Always two sacraments on a
journey to build up a better world based on better relationships to build a
civilization of love. This is the only way- Love, the way shown by Jesus.
Let
us revisit Worldwide Marriage Encounter Vision & Mission Statements and
take proactive steps to translate them into reality of our relationships.
Vision:
“Love one another as I have loved you.” – It is indeed a challenge and
opportunity.
Mission:
Worldwide Marriage Encounter’s Mission of renewal in the church and change in
the world is to assist couples and priests to live fully intimate and
responsible relationships by providing them with a Catholic “experience” and
ongoing community support for such a lifestyle.
Dr. Fr. Davis George, Director, St. Aloysius
Institute of Technology, P.B. No.28, Near Ekta Market, Gaur Bridge,
Gauraiya Ghat, Mandla Road, Jabalpur (M.P.). PIN-
482 001. Tel: 0761-2601154 (O), 2601156 (R)
Mob: 9425152081, 8965019795,
Email: dgoerge55@gmail.com, Websites: www.saitjbp.org,
www.frdavis.in
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