Challenges of Catholic Schools in India

Challenges of Catholic Schools in India
(Talk given at the National Conference of Don Bosco School in New Delhi on 24th of September 2010.)
By Dr. Fr. Davis George

1.      A tribute to the Religious.
·         “You are the treasure, wealth and heart of the Church” - John Paul II.
·         Salesians: Bench mark in School Education.
·         Don Bosco: Our vocation is graced by a special gift of God: predilection for the young “That you are young is enough to make me love you very much”.  For their welfare we give generously our time, talents and health “For you I study, for you I work, for you I live, for you I am ready even to give my life.” “Preventive System” as a means for carrying out our educational and pastoral service.  How true, “It is better to build children than to repair people.”

·         “If we work on marble, it will perish;
      If we work upon brass, time will efface it;
If we rear temples, they will crumble into dust;
But if we work on immortal souls,
If we imbue them with principles;
With fear of the Creator and love of fellow men,
We engrave on those tablets something,
Which will brighten all eternity.” ~ Daniel Webster

2.  Educational Apostolate and Evangelization.
·         Jesus the Teacher: our model and inspiration.  Faith, Commitment, Prayer.
·         Vocation and not profession.  Transformation + Empowerment.
  • Relationship with Christ is the key to effectiveness in educational apostolate. (Jn 15:1-6) Catholic Principals help the person and message of Christ find expression in…

2.1 Vatican II on Education: Declaration on Christian Education
Among all the agencies of education, the school has a special importance.  By virtue of its very purpose while it cultivates the intellect with unremitting attention, the school ripens the capacity for right judgment, provides an introduction into the cultural heritage won by past generations, promotes a sense of values and readies the pupils for professional life.  By creating friendly contacts between students of diverse temperament and background, the school fosters among them a willingness to understand one another.  Moreover, the school sets up a kind of center whose operation and progress deserve to engage the joint participation of families, teachers, various kinds of cultural, civic and religious groups, civil society and the entire human community.

2.2 All India Catholic Education Policy 2007
The Policy advocates the equally essential social and societal transformation, as a major goal and mission of our education.  Being Christian is essentially an invitation to become a person of faith, hope and love.  It is a summons to form communities of solidarity, and of justice and equality, at the service of all people, especially the poor and the marginalized.  As CBCI proclaimed in 2000, we are committed to “a new society built on justice, peace, love and harmony: a civilization of love”. 

3.   India: The emerging superpower with deteriorating moral standards
“India is an emerging Asian superpower. From high technology to the creative arts, India is rapidly becoming a global player” said Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam. According to the World Bank, India is now in top 10 economies of the world. India finally has started acting as the technology superpower in the “new world” where countries become superpower by virtue of their technical strength and capability and not colonial wealth.  Its dominance in the service sector has been acknowledged world over.

3.1 Corruption
Medical Council of India President: Dr. Ketan Desai on 22nd of April 2010.
 “The earth has enough for every man's need, but not for every man's greed.”  (Mahatma Gandhi) Corruption is widespread in India. India is ranked 85 out of 179 countries in Transparency International’s Corruption Perceptions Index, although its score has improved consistently from 2.7 in 2002 to 3.4 in 2008. Corruption has taken the role of a pervasive aspect of Indian politics and bureaucracy.

3.2 Poverty/Illiteracy
Even more than 60 years after independence from almost two centuries of British rule, large scale poverty remains the most shameful blot on the face of India. India still has the world’s largest number of poor people in a single country. Of its nearly 1 billion inhabitants, an estimated 350-400 million are below the poverty line and 75 per cent of them in the rural areas. More than 40 per cent of the population is illiterate, with women, tribal and scheduled castes particularly affected. “It is inconceivable that poverty eradication can make much headway in the absence of major advances in literacy”, said Koïchiro Matsuura, UNESCO Director-General. Swami Vivekananda said, “So long as millions live in hunger and ignorance, I hold every person a traitor who, having been educated at their expense, pays not the least heed to them.”   Through Value Education Classes we can make our students aware of their social responsibility.

3.3 Violence and Terrorism: Khandhamal.
“An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind,” said Mahatma Gandhi. Terrorism is violence or threatened violence against people and property to coerce or intimidate governments or societies to achieve political, religious or ideological purposes.  In fact, all such forceful acts should be treated as terrorism. While terrorism is a specific threat in other democracies, in India it is part of our present political culture. But, there is not even adequate awareness in the country about the nature of terrorism that is affecting the whole country.

3.4 Caste and Religion based politics
“Power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely”. To gain political power people are ready to divide and rule. Power is no more for service but to amass wealth and propagate one’s own family and name.

3.5 Communal harmony and National integration
 “Many Religions, One Nation.”  “From Kashmir to Kanyakumari, we are one.” And yet communal violence and terrorism based on religion and caste take upper hand many a time destroying the secular fabric of the country. In reality, religion divides but spirituality unites.

3.6 Seven Sins According to Mahatma Gandhi
1.     Wealth without Work - Refers to bribery, corruption, black marketing & financial evils around us today.
2.     Pleasure without Conscience - Our conscience dictates what is right and wrong. Pleasures need to be regulated and filtered through our conscious sense of responsibility.
3.     Science without Humanity - If science and technology were used for the benefit of mankind that would make this world a better place to live in.
4.     Knowledge without Character- Along with knowledge we must cultivate basic human qualities, like – fairness, kindness, fellow-feeling and dignity.
5.     Politics without Principle - If there is no principle (in politics); there is no true worth, nothing you can depend on.
6.     Commerce without Morality - Business must be based on trust and collaboration along with win-win Principles.
7.     Worship without Sacrifice - Every religion advocates primordial virtue and sacrifice. Selfishness is the root cause of all evil.

How true, “The world has achieved brilliance without wisdom, power without conscience. Ours is a world of nuclear giants and ethical infants. We know more about war than we know about peace, more about killing than we know about living.” - Louise Fischer

3.7 Education Commission Reports:
The importance of value education has been duly recognized by different education commissions and committees appointed by the Government. The Radhakrishnan Commission (1948), The Secondary Education Commission (1953) and The Sri Prakasa Commission (1959) highlighted the need for moral education in all the educational institutions. Kothari Commission (1964-66) felt, "A serious defect in the school system is the absence of provision for education in social, moral and spiritual values.”  National Policy on Education (1986) felt, "The growing concern over the erosion of essential values and an increasing cynicism in society has brought to focus the need for readjustments in the curriculum in order to make education a forceful tool for the cultivation of social and moral values.”  Programme of Action (NPE) (1992) recommended, "The framework emphasized value education as an integral part of school curriculum. It highlighted the values drawn from national goals, universal perception, ethical considerations and character building. August 26, 2009 was a red letter day for the children of India as “the Right of Children to free and Compulsory Education Act, 2009” received the President’s assent.  Education became a fundamental right of every Indian child between the ages of 6 and 14.  Dr. Manmohan Singh, the Prime Minister of India, calls it a “path-breaking Right”.  The Act has become operative from April 1, 2010.  On the one hand we must all welcome the Act without any reservations, while, on the other, find ways and means to make sure that it is implemented in letter and in spirit.

3.8 The UNESCO International Commission on Education
THE UNESCO International Commission on Education for the Twenty-first Century headed by Jacques Delors has identified "learning to be" and "learning to live together" as two among the four pillars of education. They connote some of the fundamental values education tries to impart in any society. "Learning to be" addresses the question of development of the inner capacity of the individual, which will prepare him or her to meet social and political responsibilities. "Learning to live together" would involve the creation of a harmonious life, transcending sectarian loyalties and differences. As Educators we must translate this dream into action to build a better country and world.

4.  Catholic Schools: Prospects and challenges
·         Significant contribution in Nation Building and yet, Arun Shourie and the like!!!
·         Impact factor on National level?? United we stand divided we fall. Time to revisit. Loyalty and Gratitude? Selfish intellectual giants??
·         Time to act: NOW.
·         “All who have meditated on the art of governing mankind have been convinced that the fate of the empires depends on the education of the youth." Aristotle

4.1 Be an effective Leader: Centrality of Leadership in Schools.
       The Principal is the pivot around which the whole administrative system revolves.
·      When schools have good leaders, they become leading schools.
·      Outstanding schools have effective Principals.
·      Effective Principals develop outstanding schools.
·      Crisis of leadership Church Personnel/Teachers

      The message for future School leaders is very clear:
·      Improve quality (TQM)
·      Involve in constant learning. In service training for Teachers & Mentoring: Case Study.
·      Connect and Believe in Synergy.
·      Focus on the processes. Teaching-Learning Process.
·      End the era of routines.
·      Encourage participation and interactive & TEAM-oriented activities.
·      Paradigm shift: From result oriented to transformation oriented education.
·      Not just information but ‘Transformation’.

The quality of nation depends upon the quality of its citizens. The quality of its citizens depends- not exclusively but in critical measure-upon the quality of their education. The quality of their education depends, more than upon any other single factor, upon the quality of their teacher.” These words of the American Commission on Teacher Education cannot be over-emphasized.

As the Ministry of Education document Challenge of Education: A Policy Perspective (1985) has mentioned, “Teacher performance is the most crucial input in the field of education. Whatever policies may be laid down, in the ultimate analysis, these have to be interpreted and implemented by the teachers as much through their personal example as through teaching-learning processes”.

4.2 Faith Formation & Professional Studies: Kingdom Values, Bible Class (2Tim 4:2)
  Admission for all Catholics.
  Help students to encounter Jesus as their personal Saviour.
  Train catholic leaders who witness to their faith in the Church and in the world. I.A.S.; I.P.S.; I.F.S.; Technical and Professional Studies.  

4.3 Value Education: Discover the Power in the Wings and Strength in your Roots
“What we are today is the result of what we valued yesterday….. What we will be tomorrow will be the result of what we value today....”  Excess of knowledge and power, without holiness, makes human beings devils.”  “They alone live, who live for others, the rest are more dead than alive.”- Swami Vivekananda “Literary education is of no value, if it is not able to build up a sound character.” - Mahatma Gandhi

The National Institute of Educational Research of Japan drawing upon the deliberations of six regional workshops with UNESCO, it has figured out a case of twelve moral values.  These are: caring for others, concern for the welfare of the society, nation and the international community; concern for the environment; concern for cultural heritage; self-esteem and self reliance; social responsibility; spirituality; peaceful conflict resolution; equality; justice; truth and freedom. One of the ways to impart values through education is to design a course on human values and make it a part of the curriculum. How true, "If a man carefully cultivates values in his conduct, he may still err a little but he won't be far from the standard of truth" (Confucius). “Education without values, as useful as it is, seems rather to make man a cleverer devil.” (C.S. Lewis)

4.4 Inclusive Education: Include the excluded. Best to the least. Commitment to the marginalized –   accompany to the end.
·         Radical Paradigm shift in the admission policy in favour of the economically poor and marginalised. Creation of the corpus fund for the education of the marginalised.
·         Provide for Residential education to the poor and marginalised where needed.
·         Establishment of good quality schools in the remote, rural areas.
·         Address the problems of the drop outs. ‘No more drop outs from our schools’.
·         Create a school complex where good quality school reaches out to the less developed schools in the neighbourhood to improve the quality of education for the marginalised.
·         Respond sensitively to the educational needs and concerns of the marginalised in the neighbourhood.

4.5 Holistic Quality Education: Make everyone a winner in areas of his/her competence.
·         Make education more skill based to develop student competency in the modern world.
·         Critical Appreciation/Use of Media and involvement in the media.
·         4H method (Head, Heart, Hands and Habits), School Assembly; (Case Study), Soft Skills; ASK
·         PQ: Body awareness and skillful use;
·         IQ: Maths and Verbal Intelligences.
·         EQ: Managing ourselves and our relationships well.
·         SQ: Inner wisdom guided by Compassion.  Equanimity (Inner and Outer Peace).
·         HQ: Happiness Quotient.

4.6 Involvement of the Stakeholders.
  Administration: Participatory, collaborative and democratic
  Transparency and accountability to all stakeholders
  Net working with Salesian institutions and other educational institutions and agencies.
  Students, Teachers, Parents, Alumni, Society, Industry.

4.7 Family Life/Education to Love/HIV-Aids/Counseling to Parents/Family Visits.
  Appropriate education for responsible parenthood; create awareness on gender inequality, domestic violence, divorce, girl child, child labour, human rights, women empowerment, illiteracy and other social evils.   Neighbourhood concerns.
  Conscientise the students about the dangers in the society which are affecting them adversely like drug addiction, alcoholism, HIV, AIDS, etc.
  Each one teach one. ( Give Grade)

4.8 Promote Eco-Spirituality: Copenhagen Climate Change Summit (06 – 18 December, 2009)
·         Creating effective awareness to conserve earth’s resources and promote their responsible use: Ecological Stewardship.
·         Inculcating eco-related healthy habits like personal health and hygiene, saving energy and water, waste management, etc.
·         Each one, plant one. ( Give Grade)

4.9   Democratic and Social aspirations of the Country:
  • Preamble of the Constitution:
  • WE, THE PEOPLE OF INDIA, having solemnly resolved to constitute India into a SOVEREIGN SOCIALIST SECULAR DEMOCRATIC REPUBLIC and to secure to all its citizens: JUSTICE, social, economic and political;
  • LIBERTY of thought, expression, belief, faith and worship;
  • EQUALITY of status and of opportunity; and to promote among them all.
  • FRATERNITY assuring the dignity of the individual and the unity and integrity of the Nation.
  • IN OUR CONSTITUENT ASSEMBLY this twenty-sixth day of November, 1949, do HEREBY ADOPT, ENACT AND GIVE TO OURSELVES THIS CONSTITUTION.

4.10 Inter Religious Dialogue: Communal Harmony and Peace.
·      “A new society built on justice, peace, love and harmony: a civilization of love.”

5. Conclusion: Ignite the big dream.  
·      You can make a difference in the world.
·      Leadership through example
·      SMART Goals: Strategic planning, implementation, evaluation.
·      Create leaders, not followers; Widen the circle of influence
·      Star Fish.
·      Even the Eagles need a Push!
·      Yes, YOU can.
·       “You Must Be the Change, You Wish To See In the World.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi
 

Bibliography:
The Documents of Vatican II - Although the Church is concerned primarily with the spiritual and supernatural destiny of man, it recognizes the intimate connection between that destiny and “the whole of man’s life”. 
Pius XI, encyclical letter “Divini Illus Magistri,” loc. cit., p. 76; also Pius XII, allocution to the    Association of Catholic Teachers of Bavaria, Dec. 31, 1956: “Discorsi e Radiomessaggi,”
Paul VI, allocution to the International Office of Catholic Education, Feb. 25, 1964: “Encicliche e Discorsi di Paolo VI”.
Policy to action strategies, Fr. Kuriala Chittattukalam Sdb & Fr. Joe Arimpoor Sdb.
All India Catholic Education Policy 2007.
A Guide to School Administration, Kuriala Chittattukalam Sdb.

Dr. Fr. Davis George, Principal, St. Aloysius’ College (Autonomous), Jabalpur-482 001.
Accredited A+ by NAAC, College with Potential for Excellence,

Tel: 0761-2629655 (R), 2620738 (O), 09425152081(M.)
E-mail: dgeorge55@gmail.com,
Web Site: http://www.staloysiuscollege.ac.in

The Ultimate Auction: Good Friday Message

The Ultimate Auction: Good Friday Message
Dr. Fr. Davis George

A wealthy man and his son loved to collect rare works of art. They had everything in their collection, from Picasso to Raphael. They would often sit together and admire the great works of art. When the Vietnam conflicts broke out, the son went to war. He was very courageous and died in battle while rescuing another soldier. The father was notified and grieved deeply for his only son. About a month later, just before Christmas, there was a knock at the door. A young man stood at the door with large package in his hands.   He said, “Sir, you don’t know me, but I am the soldier for whom your son gave his life. He saved many lives that day, and he was carrying me to safety when a bullet struck him in the heart and he died instantly. He often talked about you, and your love for art.’ The young man held out this package. ‘I know this isn’t much. I’m not really a great artist, but think your son would have wanted you to have this.’

The father opened the package. It was a portrait of his son, painted by the young man. He stared in awe at the way the soldier had captured the personality of his son in the painting. The father was so drawn to the eyes that his own eyes welled up with tears.  He thanked the young man and offered to pay him for the picture. ‘Oh, no sir, I could never repay what your son did for me. It’s a gift.’  The father hung the portrait over his mantle. Every time visitors came to his home he took them to see the portrait of his son before he showed them any of the other great works he had collected.  The man died a few months later. There was to be a great auction of his paintings. Many influential people gathered, excited over seeing the great paintings and having an opportunity to purchase one for their collection. On the platform sat the painting of the son the auctioneer pounded his gavel. ‘We will start the bidding with this picture of the son. Who will bid for this picture?’ There was silence. Then a voice in the back of the room shouted, ‘We want to see the famous paintings. Skip this one.’ But the auctioneer persisted. ‘Will somebody bid for this painting. Who will start the bidding? $100, $200?’ Another voice angrily. ‘We didn’t come to see this painting.

We came to see the Van Gogh’s, the Rembrandt’s. Get on with the real bids!’ But still the auctioneer continued. ‘The son! The son! Who’ll take the son?’  Finally, a voice came from the very back of the room. It was the longtime gardener of the man and his son. ‘I’ II give $10 for the painting.’ Being a poor man, it was all he could afford. ‘We have $10, who will bid $20?’ The crowd was becoming angry. They didn’t want the picture of the son. They wanted the more worthy investments for their collections. The auctioneer pounded the gavel. ‘Going once, twice, SOLD for $10!’ A man sitting on the second row shouted, ‘Now let’s get on with the collection!’ The auctioneer laid down his gavel. ‘I’ am sorry, the auction is over.’ ‘What about the paintings?’ ‘I am sorry, when I was called to conduct this auction; I was not allowed to reveal that stipulation until this time. Only the painting of the son would be auctioned. Whoever bought that painting would inherit the entire estate, including the paintings. The man who took the son gets everything!’

God gave His son 2,000 years ago to die on the cross. Much like the auctioneer, His message today is: ‘the son! The son! Who’ll take the son?’ Because, you see, whoever takes the Son gets everything. “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.  For God sent the Son into the world, not to condemn the world, but that the world might be saved through him.”  (John 3:16-17)  He loved them to the end.  (John 13:1)   Someone asked Jesus, “How much do you love me?  He stressed out his hands on the Cross and said “this much”.   How true, “While we were yet helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly.  Why, one will hardly die for a righteous man-though perhaps for a good man one will dare even to die.  But God shows his love for us in that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:6-8)

On Good Friday God manifested his unconditional love for human kind.  It is only in the cross that we see the face of God. We look at the sun and see the energy of God. We look at the stars and see the infinity of God. We look at the atom and see the complexity of God. But it is only in the cross that we see the face of God’s love.  It is only in the cross that we see a love so great that God was willing to die for me. It is only in the cross that we hear the statement, “No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” (John 15: 13). 

Dr. Fr. Davis George, Principal, St. Aloysius College, (Autonomous),
Accredited A+ by NAAC and College with Potential for Excellence, Jabalpur M.P.,
Contact No.: 94251-52081; 2620738, E-mail-dgeorge55@gmail.com; Website: http://www.staloysiuscollege.ac.in

World Wide Marriage Encounter: Fathers in Love, Mothers in Love, Families in Love.

World Wide Marriage Encounter: Fathers in Love, Mothers in Love, Families in Love.
Dr. Fr. Davis George, Former Indian Ecclesial Team (NET) and Asian Ecclesial Team (AET), WWME.
Dr. Fr. Davis George, Former NET and AET, WWME.

Dick and Patricia Alexandro came to India 40 years ago to share their couple love and transforming experience of the WWME weekend.  They sold everything they owned in the US and came over to India listening to the voice of God as did Abraham in the past.  What an adventurous journey of faith they embarked upon beckoning to the call of Jesus to share his unconditional love and covenantal relationship with couples, priests and religious.  Fr. Peter writes “Dick and Pat spent 10 months here and I think their lives were truly blessed (even with the cross) because of their generosity towards God.  They left on Valentine’s Day Feb10th 1973 because they wanted to give God a Valentine gift of their coupleness.”  How can we ever thank God for the great and daring step taken by Dick and Patricia, supported by the founder Father WWME India, Fr. Peter D’Souza?  On this occasion we salute them and place on record our deep indebtedness for what they are to all of us and for what they have done to light the lamp of WWME India burning so brightly till today.  “We are only channels of His love and presence to each other every day through the way we communicate His love and concern” says Fr. Peter D’souza.
It is befitting that the Worldwide Marriage Encounter – India, is holding a National Convention to celebrate 40 Years of WWME in India from October 13-16, 2013. The event would be conducted at Sarvodaya, St Pius X College Campus, Goregaon, Mumbai. The theme is ‘Go, Grow, Glow, - Faith and Love in Action’. His Eminence Cardinal Oswald Gracias will inaugurate the Convention.  The overwhelming response from encountered couples, Priests and Religious to be part of the great event is indeed heartwarming and this would provide much needed impetus to once again to cast out into the deep.  We are deeply indebted to our NET, Errol, Madhulika and Fr. Melvyn for their dynamic and visionary leadership which made all of us to be part of this great event and our special thanks to ME Mumbai for translating the vision into reality.  I do remember so many of our Team Couples and Priests who have generously contributed their love, time, talents and treasure without counting the cost to make WWME  what it is today. The same legacy is continued by all our team members all over the country. I have been always inspired by the team couples all these years as they have been leading WWME through their relationship and the Catholic Church is lucky to have such dedicated lay leaders who have shown their love for the church in action. The encountered Couples, Priests and Religious have kept the weekend experience growing and glowing through their dialoging way of life and widening the circle of influence by recruiting many more couples and Priests to experience the weekend.
We live in a world of great scientific and technological advancement.  We can speak to the person on the moon easily, but we find it difficult to speak to the person under the same roof.  We become strangers in the middle of a crowd.  We have witnessed today a steady increase in divorce, broken marriages, broken relationships, broken dreams resulting in broken families, wounded humanity and orphaned children.  Pope Francis said that Christians should be messengers of hope and joy in today’s world.  And that is what marriage encounter weekend experience can offer to the world.  We need to focus on the domestic Church, couple relationship, commitment in Priesthood and Religious life- in good times and bad, in sickness and in health, in prosperity and in adversity, until death do us part. 
Pope John Paul II said, ‘I place much of my hope for the future in Marriage Encounter.’  Later he wrote, “Love then is not a utopia: it is given to mankind as a task to be carried out with the help of divine grace. It is entrusted to man and woman, in the sacrament of matrimony, as the basic principle of their ‘duty,’ and it becomes the foundation of their mutual responsibility: first as spouses, then as father and mother. In the celebration of the sacrament, the spouses give and receive each other, declaring their willingness to welcome children and to educate them. On this hinges human civilization, which cannot be defined as anything other than a ‘civilization of love’.” – Letter to Families, no. 15
Pope Benedict XVI speaking at an audience with Worldwide Marriage Encounter leaders from across the world made strong comments in support of the movement.  “Marriage Encounter, yes! You are doing such important work in our church, especially in this world we live in,” Pope Benedict said as he spoke with David & Bronny Lea and Fr. John Rate, Worldwide Marriage Encounter International Coordinating Team.  The pope went on to say, “I will pray for you and your movement.”
Over 75,000 people experienced the life-giving Weekends in almost 90 countries around the world.  This year Worldwide Marriage Encounter is celebrating 40 years of ministry in India and Europe.   It is indeed a matter of great pride that WWME  is having weekends in China and Russia.  Our IET Tony & Cathy and Fr. Emile, expressed the hope that Worldwide Marriage Encounter would reach even more countries in the years ahead.  “The need to strengthen marriage and family throughout the world has never been greater,” they stated. 
Worldwide Marriage Encounter has been offering weekend experiences for over 43years and is considered the original faith-based marriage enrichment program.  The programs are continually updated to keep abreast of changes in society, and WWME now offers evening and half-day programs that are presented at parishes and other church facilities.  The weekend program, traditionally presented as an overnight experience at a hotel or retreat center, can also be presented at the parish where the couples return to their homes in the evenings.   WWME has a presence in over 90 countries, which makes it the largest pro-marriage movement in the world.  Today the WWME programs are presented in Local languages all over the world.
Worldwide Marriage Encounter offers married couples the opportunity to spend time together away from the busyness of the world to focus on each other.  Fathers in love, Mothers in love, families in love. It offers tools for building and maintaining a strong, Christian marriage in today’s world.  It also offers similar skills of building and maintaining a strong Priesthood and Religious Life.
Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekends start on a Friday evening and end on Sunday afternoon. Participants hear presentations by a couple and a priest and later write their thoughts and feelings to share in the privacy of their room. There is no group discussion. Weekends are held in various locations, including hotels and retreat centers. Worldwide Marriage Encounter is a non-profit organization and all donations from the weekend are used to continue offering additional weekends throughout the country and the world.
Married couples, who want to learn more about making their “good marriages, better” can find Worldwide Marriage Encounter weekends that are presented all over the world.   Marriage encounter weekend can make a good marriage into a great marriage and a good Priesthood into a great Priesthood.  Always two sacraments on a journey to build up a better world based on better relationships to build a civilization of love. This is the only way- Love, the way shown by Jesus.
Let us revisit Worldwide Marriage Encounter Vision & Mission Statements and take proactive steps to translate them into reality of our relationships.
Vision: “Love one another as I have loved you.” – It is indeed a challenge and opportunity.
Mission: Worldwide Marriage Encounter’s Mission of renewal in the church and change in the world is to assist couples and priests to live fully intimate and responsible relationships by providing them with a Catholic “experience” and ongoing community support for such a lifestyle.

Dr. Fr. Davis George, Director, St. Aloysius Institute of Technology, P.B. No.28, Near Ekta Market, Gaur Bridge,
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Marriage Encounter: Discover and celebrate your relationship

Marriage Encounter: Discover and celebrate your relationship
Dr. Fr. Davis George, Former Indian Ecclesial Team (NET) and Asian Ecclesial Team (AET), WWME
Dr. Fr. Davis George, Former NET and AET, WWME.
The Marriage Encounter weekend is a positive and personal experience offering married couples an opportunity to learn a technique of loving communication that they can use for the rest of their lives. It's a chance to look deeply into their relationship with each other and with God. It's a time to share their feelings, hopes and dreams with each other.
The emphasis of the Marriage Encounter weekend is on the communication between husbands and wives. The weekend provides a conducive environment for couples to spend time together, away from the distractions and tensions of everyday life, while encouraging them to focus on each other and their relationship.
It's not a retreat, marriage clinic, group sensitivity, or a substitute for counseling. It's a unique approach aimed at revitalizing Marriage. This is a time for you and your spouse to be alone together, to rediscover each other and together focus on your relationship for an entire weekend. Every marriage deserves that kind of attention!
Who is it for?
Any married couple who desires a richer, fuller life together. A marriage can never be too good. Marriage Encounter is designed to deepen and enrich the joys a couple share together, whether they have been married for only a short time, or for many years. Priests and other religious are also welcome and encouraged to attend as it can deepen their relationship with Jesus and his
Church!   As Priests and Religious we have much to learn from encountered married couples.
What happens at a Worldwide Marriage Encounter Weekend?
A series of presentations are given by a team of married couples and a religious in the particular faith expression (priest or minister). Each presentation allows you and your spouse a rare opportunity to look at yourselves as individuals, then to look at your marriage and relationship to one another, and finally to look at your relationship to God and to the world. The weekend starts at 8:00 on Friday night and runs until about 5:00 on Sunday afternoon. Five meals are provided (Saturday; breakfast, lunch & dinner and Sunday breakfast & lunch).
Does the weekend respect the couple's privacy?
YES! The weekend is oriented strictly to each individual couple. You concentrate on your spouse to such an extent that you are hardly aware of the other couples present. The presentations are given to the group as a whole. After each presentation, the husband and wife have time in the privacy of their room for their own personal discussion.
How does a Marriage Encounter enhance a marriage?
The encounter weekend teaches a communication technique which permits each couple to explore important areas of their relationship in a spirit of love and understanding. By continuing the newly-acquired technique begun on the weekend, husbands and wives continually grow closer together to live more joyful and purposeful lives.
Is there a specific religious orientation to the weekend?
Marriage Encounter does present God as a focus for successful marriages.  There are many faith expressions of Marriage Encounter Weekends - Catholic, as well as several Protestant denominations.  While the Weekend may be presented in a given Faith expression, each is open to couples from other orientations.  Religious doctrine is not preached.  Each couple is asked to apply what they hear to their own faith expression.
Our marriage is under stress, and we're considering separation or divorce.  Is Marriage Encounter for us?
No.  Marriage Encounter is for couples experiencing the usual ups and downs of married life, not situations that threaten your relationship.  You should contact an organization like Retrouvaille (see other resources).  If you are unsure whether a Marriage Encounter Weekend is appropriate for your situation, contact us and we can help you discern which program would be right for you.
What is the timing and the mechanics of the weekend?
The Weekend starts at 8 P.M. but we request that you arrive by 7 p.m.  The room and meals for Saturday and breakfast and lunch on Sunday are all part of the Weekend.  Please register at the Marriage Encounter sign in desk, not the main hotel registration.
The Weekend ends between 5 p.m. and 6 p.m. on Sunday.
How much does the Weekend cost?
Apart from a nominal registration fee, on the weekend, you will be asked to make a free will donation.  This donation will cover the expenses of lodging, food, and materials for the Weekend.  The expenses vary somewhat depending on the specific location.   Marriage Encounter turns no couples away from the Weekend because of financial need.  Please do not let cost be a consideration for your going on a Weekend.  God has provided for over 35 years to assure that there are funds to put on Weekends. 
The Business cum Formation Programme is designed to offer committed and lifelong nuptial tie-ups fresh nuances, each year, of a dream that began on their wedding day. To be married in the Lord is a call beyond "just ourselves", into an awareness of our involvement in the work of the Lord in the world. Christian marriage is a Sacrament – it is meant to be a sign, a powerful witness of Jesus' very own love for us (cfr. Jn 15:12, 17; Jn 13:34). Marriage Encounter has drawn its inspiration and substance from this "New Commandment." The Sacrament of Matrimony confers on a wedded pair, an anointing, and, with it, a sense of calling and empower its participants for mission (Acts 1:8). In this year of faith let both the sacraments of Matrimony and Priesthood journey together in faith, hope and love to build a better world.  We need to sing again and again,
There's a new world somewhere they call the Promised Land
And I'll be there someday if you will hold my hand
I still need you there beside me no matter what I do
For I know I'll never find another you….


Dr. Fr. Davis George, Director, St. Aloysius Institute of Technology, P.B. No.28, Near Ekta Market, Gaur Bridge,
Gauraiya Ghat, Mandla Road, Jabalpur (M.P.). PIN- 482 001. Tel: 0761-2601154 (O), 2601156 (R)
Mob: 9425152081, 8965019795, Email: dgoerge55@gmail.com, Websites: www.saitjbp.org, www.frdavis.in

Ignite the Bigger Dream

Ignite the Bigger Dream
Davis George

On the shores of Galilee Jesus saw Simon and his brother Andrew,
Fishermen casting their nets into the lake to catch fish,
“I will make you fishers of men,” said the Master.
His eyes could see what was not visible to others-that they could become fishers of men.
His eyes could see what was not visible to others-the potential in them,
Their inner strength, talents and capabilities, attitude and aptitude.

He gave them a bigger dream to match their daring nature,
“Follow me and I will make you fishers of men.”
No written test, no interview, no probationary period, straight onto the job.
You are born for greater things, born to build the kingdom of God,
To give the good news of my Father’s unconditional love for humankind,
To include the excluded and give forgiveness, peace and life in abundance,
To build a better world, to reach out, touch and heal the broken world.

Jesus saw what others could not see.
His piercing eyes, compassionate eyes, glittering eyes,
Eyes of approval, eyes of recognition, eyes of hope, eyes full of divine love,
No one had ever seen such talents in ordinary fishermen,
Under that divine aura they left their net at once and followed him.

His divine eyes saw again another two, James and John,
Toiling through the night, with endurance and patience,
Mending their nets in silence and tiredness.

Jesus called them and immediately they followed him.
No hesitation, no discussion, no calculation on the perks and remuneration.
Such was his look, radiant and compelling,
Full of trust, full of hope, and confidence.

You can do a better job, bigger job.
Change the world with love and hope,
“Come follow me, I need you.”
I have a better plan for you, join me, be part of a winning team.”
And they just left their father and other hired men.
Such was his look, such was his call, and such was the confidence he had in them.
Only Jesus could see what was not visible to others.

Have the eyes of Jesus today,
To see what is not easily noticed,
To look within and see the inner person.
Have the eyes of Jesus to ignite the bigger dream,
To challenge people to see their own capabilities,
To discover possibilities and embark on another journey,
Enabling them to build on their strength and not on their weaknesses,
Nor on their moments of discouragement and disillusionment,
You need the eyes of Jesus to see what others cannot see, the radiant face of God,
You need the eyes of Jesus to persuade people and not intimidate,
You need the eyes of Jesus to help people to rise above the ordinary,
To do extraordinary things and permeate this world with His divine presence.
That divine look of reassurance that they too can be part of a winning team.


--- 05/09/2013

Have Eyes to See the Invisible

Have Eyes to See the Invisible

Davis George

Eyes, windows to the world, bring joy unfathomable to the heart,
You can see-the sun rise, sun set, stars in the heavens above,
Lilies in the fields, the different colours, shades and designs made to perfection.
Fruits that defy modern nutrition with healing touch and taste that can linger on.
Oh, what a sight it is, the birth of a child, children growing up,
Changes in the season-Autumn, Summer, Winter and Spring.
The spring with new shoots, fresh flowers and fragrance, treat to the eyes,
Birds flying up and down, carefree, their nest to its perfection.
Paintings and sculptures of great artists-Michelangelo, Picasso and the rest
What wonder, beauty, creativity, design and depth, mystery so divine.
You need eyes to see what others cannot see – the wonder of Nature.

If only eyes could see the story written in a seed- petals, flowers and fruits,
If only one could see the potential within each seed,
If only one could gaze into the future and see what is in store,
The immense possibilities, opportunities and capabilities embedded deep within.
If only one would get the required ground to shoot down and sprout out,
You would blossom and bear fruit that would make you ponder and wonder
The marvels of creation unfolding the wisdom unfathomable of awesome God,
If only you could open your eyes to see the invisible – the wonder of Nature.
Eyes can communicate love, tenderness, predilection and purpose,

Eyes can communicate disapproval, disappointment, indifference and anger,
It can behold beauty unfathomable,
It can absorb pain beyond comprehension,
Tears of joy, tears of sadness both can purify and sanctify,
What marvels eyes can reveal,
What confidence and trust eyes can radiate,
If only we look at each other with the eyes of compassion,
Our life will never be the same again.

The Miracle of Transformation

The Miracle of Transformation
Davis George

The crowd always followed him for favours and miracles,
But Jesus liked to teach, far more than working miracles,
For miracles were only signs of a greater reality.
If one could only comprehend what an amazing leader he was,
Dealt with crowds yet found time to see individuals.

There he was, Levi, the tax collector,
Sitting in his office busy with work, oblivious of Jesus.
Yet Master noticed what others didn't,
Jesus saw him, his eyes met Levi's,
“Follow me”, the Master said!

Amazed and puzzled, those close to him looked at the strange scene,
Tax collector, ruthless and merciless, many thought,
Extortion, mismanagement and partiality,
Despised and criticized by everyone for reasons known to all,
Isolated he felt, aloof others remained,
Distance created by fear and suspicion.
 
Undeterred, Master saw Levi with the eyes of a Savior and summoned him.
He did not dwell on his past, but saw his future vivid and clear;
Every sinner has a past, every saint a future.
Self-righteousness  he never accepted, availability and inner quest he noticed,
He needed people with knowledge and practical acumen in his team,
Knowing anyone can be transformed, uplifted to higher spiritual experience,
With no hesitation or concern for what others would think or say,
Jesus looked into his eyes and purposefully said, 'Follow me.'
What magic in that divine look emanating confidence and trust!

One need to look into the eyes of Jesus,
He who beckons at an unpredictable time,
To become his disciple and continue his mission,
To see a saint in a sinner and a tree in a seed and butterfly in a cocoon,
What a prompt response to that unprecedented call,
Levi got up and followed Jesus His Master,
Sinner transformed into a saint in the making,
And that miracle of transformation continues even today,
If only you would look into His eyes and respond to His invitation, “follow me”.
You will never be the same.

Conductor of great change in the world: Jesus Christ

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