Education for life - The Ultimate Gift

(Article published in the book of All India Association of Catholic Schools in their 44th National AINACS Convention on 22nd Oct. 2011).

1. Educational Apostolate and Evangelization.
Jesus the Teacher is our model and inspiration in educational Apostolate.  Jesus came into the world to establish God’s Kingdom on earth.  He came to show us a better way of living, loving, forgiving and serving.  He ignited this big dream in his Apostles.  Through our schools we continue to share this dream with tens of thousands of students and their parents.  In the Acts of the Apostles we read that the initial name of Christianity was “those who belonged to the way.” (Acts 19:9).  Often the focus of school education and education in general is on academic excellence and as a result we are not able to give holistic education.  To bridge the gap between education and life we are going to discuss Education for Life as the Ultimate Gift.
1.1  Vatican II on Education: Declaration on Christian Education
As Priests and Religious our work in an educational institution is part of our vocation and not mere profession.  We are involved in bringing the required paradigm shift and work for the transformation of all those who enter our campus and work for the empowerment of the weaker sections of the society.
Relationship with Christ is the key to effectiveness in educational apostolate. (Jn. 15:1-6) Catholic Principals help the person and message of Christ find expression in teaching and learning, curricular and extra-curricular activities so as to bear witness to the Kingdom Values.
“Among all the agencies of education, the school has a special importance. By virtue of its very purpose while it cultivates the intellect with unremitting attention, the school ripens the capacity for right judgment, provides an introduction into the cultural heritage won by past generations, promotes a sense of values and readies the pupils for professional life.  By creating friendly contacts between students of diverse temperament and background, the school fosters among them a willingness to understand one another.  Moreover, the school sets up a kind of center whose operation and progress deserves to engage the joint participation of families, teachers, various kinds of cultural, civic and religious groups, civil society and the entire human community.” (Vatican II, Declaration on Christian Education)
1.2   Catholic Schools: Prospects and Challenges
Though significant contribution in Nation Building, yet we have people having been students of our schools betraying the institution and fighting against the Catholic Church.  What is the impact of Christian Education at the National level?  Needless to say that united we stand, divided we fall. It is time to revisit our educational Apostolate.  How much of Loyalty and Gratitude do we elicit?  Or are we producing selfish intellectual giants?  How true, “All who have meditated on the art of governing mankind have been convinced that the fate of the empires depends on the education of the youth." (Aristotle)  The time to act is NOW.
1.3   Be an effective Principal: Centrality of Leadership in Schools.
The Principal is the pivot around which the whole administrative system revolves. When schools have good leaders, they become leading schools. Outstanding schools have effective Principals. Effective Principals develop outstanding schools. There is crisis of leadership in all walks of life. Principals and teachers would be effective if they become effective leaders.  
1.3.1     Involvement of the Stakeholders.
If we involve all stakeholders like Students, Teachers, Parents, Alumni, Society and Industry we would be able evolve a system of education that would be holistic and relevant.  The distance between the stakeholders make the process of education hyphenated and  meaningless. As a result of this students do not develop required employability skills.
1.3.2   Education for Life: A Tree Is Known by Its Fruit – Lk. 6.43,44
Jesus said that a tree is known by its fruits. Similarly the success of our school education would be seen by the success stories of our students. Most of the students who come out of our institutions are well placed and doing well professionally.  It is important also to assess and see how many of them have become better human beings who are able to reach out, touch and heal the broken world. How many of them have imbibed kingdom values and how many of them are grateful to us and ready to stand by us particularly in times of religious persecution.  We need to have a paradigm shift from education for amassing wealth and personal glory to education for social transformation and empowerment. Education for life would provide insights and skills that would help one to live meaningfully and contribute to the building up of an inclusive society.
1.4  India: The Emerging Superpower with deteriorating moral standards
“India is an emerging Asian superpower.  From high technology to the creative arts, India is rapidly becoming a global player” said, Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam.
1.5  Seven Sins according to Mahatma Gandhi
1. Wealth without Work.  2. Pleasure without Conscience 3. Science without Humanity. 4. Knowledge without Character. 5. Politics without Principle. 6. Commerce without Morality. 7.Worship without Sacrifice.
2.      The Ultimate Gift: Timeless Lessons for Life Change
The Ultimate Gift written by Jim Stovall begins with the reading of the Last Will and Testament of Red Stevens. His entire greedy family is present and awaiting their treasures bestowed unto them by Red’s death. It was a frightfully morbid scene with greed completely obscuring any grief...if there had been any grief to begin with. One by one Red’s lawyer reads the gifts given to each individual and that person would then be escorted out. Finally there is one person left in the room, the youngest inheritor and nephew, Jason.
An extremely wise and wealthy grandfather gives his shallow, spoiled grandson the ultimate inheritance. In The Ultimate Gift, Jason Stevens, learns there's more to life than money. Instead of the expected cash windfall, Red Stevens has prepared twelve gifts to be given after his death to his grandson. The series of gifts, leading up to the ultimate gift, take Jason on a challenging journey of personal growth and self-discovery. It causes the reader to immediately want to make positive changes in his or her own life. The Ultimate Gift leaves a lasting impression and a thunderous impact.
The Twelve Gifts that are needed for holistic grown of a person according to the author of the book are as follows:
2.1  The gift of work: Appreciation and satisfaction come from earning something. Leisure is only enjoyable when you earn it. Today we live in a world of instant coffee, instant food and instant success.  The good old saying “99% perspiration and 1% inspiration is the secret of success” is almost made redundant by those people who indulge in short cut to success. People want to make money without doing any work.  Thus corruption, bribery and black money is almost institutionalized. Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam addressed the students of St. Aloysius college, (Autonomous) Jabalpur on the 12th of July 2011 saying “Work with integrity and succeed with integrity.”  How relevant it is in today’s context. Hard works is its own reward, But it also reward the people we work for. It is important to teach our students, “ Get on your knees and Pray, then get on your feet and work.” (Gordon B. Hindkey) Let us promote work culture and help them to work smart and succeed.
2.2  The gift of Money: Money is nothing more than a tool.  It can be a force for good, a force for evil or simply be idle.  Story of the seven richest people of the world would be a big eye opener to everyone. In 1923, the World’s Wealthiest men met at the Edgewater Beach Hotel in Chicago, Illinois. At that time, they controlled more money than the total amount contained in the United States Treasury. Here is a list of who was there and what eventually happened of them:
Charles Schwab – President of the largest Independent steel Company-died broke. Arthur Cutten – Greatest of the wheat speculators – died abroad, insolvent. Richard Witney – president of the New York Stock Exchange-died just after release from Sing prison. Albert Fall – member of a U.S. president’s cabinet – was pardoned from prison so that he could die at home.  Jess Livermore- Greatest “bear” on Wall Street – Committed Suicide. Leon Fraser – President of the Bank of International Settlements- committed suicide. Lvar Kreuger – Head of the world’s greatest monopoly – committed suicide. St. Paul said that money is the root cause of all evil. Money is a good servant and a bad master. School education could be a very powerful medium of teaching students the importance of money and its ill effect. How true, “Money often costs too much.” (Ralph Waldo Emerson)
2.3  The gift of friends: No man is an island. Even a bird needs two wings to fly. We have grown from dependence to independence and then to inter- dependence. True loyal friends are hard to find and so treat them that way. You never know when a    new friendship is about to begin. A True Friend is the greatest of all blessings. As said “A friend is one who walks in when others walk out." (Walter Winchell) This would enable us to build an inclusive society. It is a wealthy person, indeed, who calculates riches not in gold but in friends.
2.4  The gift of learning: Have a burning desire and love for self education. Often we consider education as a finished product where as it is an ongoing process till death. Teach them to learn, unlearn, re-learn. Education is a lifelong process of learning. Give a person a fish, and you feed them for a day. Teach a person how to fish, and you feed him for a lifetime. Knowledge is like a garden: if it is not cultivated, it cannot be harvested.” –  African Proverb.
2.5  The gift of problems:  It is said that every problem has a gift for you in its hands. These prepare us for what’s ahead in life so embrace them and enjoy the accomplishment. Difficulties are opportunities to do better things; they are stepping stones to greater experience. When one door closes, another always opens. A problem is a chance to do our best. It is a challenge and opportunity to accomplish greater things in life. The inspirational talk “No Arms, No Legs, No Worries” by Nick Vijicic can motivate any one to face life as it comes and make the best of it. His attitude to life changed him from a man with no limbs to a man with no limits.
2.6  The gift of family:  Some are born with a wonderful family, others have to find and create one. Either way, it’s essential. “You don't choose your family.  They are God's gift to you, as you are to them.”  ~Desmond Tutu. We are confronted with gender discrimination, female infanticide, dowry death, broken families, depression, loneliness, unhappiness, meaninglessness, ingratitude, Drug and Alcohol Addiction and Illegal affairs. Students should become aware of the stark realities of life and learn to understand the importance of family life.  Happy families are made by happy and emotionally mature people.  We need to focus on family Life/Education to Love/HIV-Aids/Counseling to Parents and appropriate education for responsible parenthood.
2.7  The gift of Laughter: Laughter is good medicine for soul. Our world is desperately in need of more such medicine. A child laughs spontaneously several times and remains healthy. We take life too seriously and end up with serious health problems. And so we have laughter clubs all over the world. It has been found that we have no ability to laugh at ourselves; we need to develop a sense of humour to promote healthy interactions and relationships.  We also need to address in our class, Stress Management / Anger Management and find out ways and means to overcome these and promote peace and contentment.
2.8  The gift of dreams: See yourself accomplishing your goals and desires before you live through them.  Dream until your last day.  Ignite the big dream.   “Dream children, dream and dream; if you would dream, thoughts would come, transform thoughts into action.” ~ Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam  “Dream is not what you see in sleep.  It is a thing which does not let you sleep” – Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam. If you follow your Dreams you will never be the same. Young students are  full of potentials and talents. We need to help them to discover themselves.  Education should give them roots to remain rooted to the ground and wings to fly and explore unexplored horizons of life.
2.9  The gift of giving.  Small gifts to you could be huge gifts for others. Give more than you take. The more you give the more you receive, said Jesus. “One man gives freely, yet grows all the richer; another withholds what he should give, and only suffers want. A liberal man will be enriched, and one who waters will himself be watered.” (Proverbs 11:24-25) "You make a living by what you get, you make a life by what you give." – Winston Churchill We must introduce our students to the power in Altruism and   the Joy of Giving. Schools could celebrate the joy of giving week every year. Giving also can be in the form of love, time, Care, respect, peace etc.
2.10          The gift of gratitude: In those times we yearn more to have in our lives, we should dwell on the things we already have. In doing so we will often find that our lives are already full to overflowing. Schools can become commercial centers and students may look at us as Big Bazaar dolling out education!! They will never grow up with a sense of gratitude to the teachers and the institution. Care must be taken to cultivate this very significant value system. It would be good to make them aware of the benefits of Being Grateful - Grateful people sleep better; are happier; less depressed; less stressed; and more satisfied with their lives and social relationships; have higher levels of control of their environments; personal growth; purpose in life; and self acceptance; have more positive ways of coping with the difficulties they experience in life; have less negative coping strategies; being less likely to try to avoid the problem.
2.11          The gift of the day. Every day is a gift, and how you use it brings you either one day closer to or one day farther from your goal.  Life in its essence boils down to one day at a time. TODAY is the day!  The Gift That Makes You Happier and More Successful at Work and in Life, Today! 
The book, The Present written by Spencer Johnson tells a parable of a young man who is mentored by an older gentleman. The gentleman tells the man about “The Present”, and he does all he can to figure out what exactly that means. He finally realizes the “present” is not a physical gift, but a concept involving being totally involved in whatever you are currently doing. The present is not the past and it is not the future.  The present is the present moment.  The present is right now.  The past is history and the future is mystery and the present is a gift and that is why it is called present. Be in the Present; Learn from the Past; Help create the Future; Realize your purpose.
2.12          The gift of love. In a world full of hatred and violence we as Christian schools must go all out to promote love and build up a civilization of love. Love makes each gift and experience worth living. “Love is life. And if you miss love, you miss life.” -  Leo F. Buscaglia. We could discuss with the students the benefits of love. A loving person is Kind and Patient; Forgiving and Humble, Courteous, Generous and honest. Love makes us live longer and keeps you forever young. It facilitates faster healing, reduces stress and  promotes mental health, has an anti cancer effect,  it reduces pain and it promotes better blood circulation, lowers blood pressure and reduces the risk of heart diseases.  What is love NOT? Possessiveness is not love, Jealousy is not love, Lust is not love, Fear is not love, Keeping people all to yourself is not love and Expecting something from someone is not love.
In the end, life lived to its fullest is its own Ultimate Gift.  “I have come that you may have life and have it in abundance.”  Jn. 10:10
3.      Conclusion: Discover the power in your wings and strength in your roots.
Our educational apostolate should aim at Social and societal transformation, as a major goal and mission of our education. Form communities of solidarity, and of justice and equality, at the service of all people, especially the poor and the marginalized.  As CBCI proclaimed in 2000, we are committed to “A new society built on justice, peace, love and harmony: a civilization of love”.
“Education without values, as useful as it is, seems rather to make man a cleverer devil.” (C.S. Lewis). “What we are today is the result of what we valued yesterday….. What we will be tomorrow will be the result of what we value today....”  “Excess of knowledge and power, without holiness, makes human being devils.”  “They alone live, who live for others, the rest are more dead than alive.” - Swami Vivekananda  “Literary education is of no value, if it is not able to build up a sound character.”    - Mahatma Gandhi
Education for life should include: 1. Caring for others 2. Concern for the welfare of the society 3. nation and the international community 4. Concern for the environment 5. Concern for cultural heritage 6. self-esteem and self reliance 7. social responsibility 8. spirituality 9. peaceful conflict resolution 9. equality 10. justice 11. truth 12.  freedom. (The National Institute of Educational Research of Japan)
Our schools shall be the light, salt and leaven of the society promoting  Kingdom values.  For this “You Must Be the Change, You Wish To See In the World.”  ~ Mahatma Gandhi.


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